Dating with Herpes In Toronto – Doesn’t Have To Be A Liability!

October 18, 2016 by  
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herpes dating toronto loving coupleToronto is the most populous city in Canada, and since an HSV infection largely boils down to a ‘numbers-game’, you can bet there is plenty of company for you right here in town if you are positive for genital herpes and want to ENJOY dating (without the awkwardness of having “The Talk” with people who have no idea about herpes).

LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS of Singles in TorontoBrowse Toronto Herpes Singles Now!There are some sites for STD singles where you go to check people in your city and there are none or just a few … so the lonely feeling continues.

Then there’s, where you go, set up your free profile super-quickly, start browsing, and [angels can sing here] SO MANY quality singles in your town appear… and they all have herpes! AND they are all honest and decent enough to use the site in order to find others who share the condition.

Too many people with the virus already know  that there are countless less ethical herpes-carriers who are not so forthright and caring about potential future partners.

So if you have genital herpes, HSV-1 or HSV-2, and if you are interested in finding tons of GREAT singles who share your concerns about spreading the virus, just take a minute or two to sign up now:

This can really change your life. Imagine the smile on your face when you see a list of hot, smart, cool, successful singles who share your values and understand the emotional pain you’ve carried as much as the relatively innocuous virus you carry!

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Best Solution For Genital Herpes – Not A CURE, But Next Best Thing

September 8, 2016 by  
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The Solution To HerpesNaturally, it would be most conducive to love and relationships if NOBODY had herpes, if EVERYBODY had herpes, or if herpes were easily cured with some meds like most other STDs / STIs, but at this moment in time, there is no cure and it can create rifts between people who would otherwise fit perfectly.

SO now the good news: there is this website, PositiveSingles, where people who live with HSV 1 & HSV 2 (or if you don’t know exactly which kind you have, that IS a checkbox!) can happily meet and mingle, never having to drop the HSV-bomb on a (potentially) horrified non-infected (potential) partner.

What a relief!

Browse Toronto Herpes Singles Now!

There are plenty of people who claim that HSV / genital herpes is “no big deal” and that a healthy, loving relationship is possible between an infected and uninfected partner with the proviso of safe sex and Valtrex. That is an individual decision for both parties to make, but for many individuals who have been knowingly or unknowingly exposed to the virus, it seems better to simply stop the spread by staying within “the community” – why not eck it out yourself by clicking here for PositiveSingles or by clicking the button below.

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Disclosing Herpes Status – Yes, You Have To! Here Is The EASY Way!

August 22, 2014 by  
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There couldn’t be too many people who, when officially diagnosed with HSV 2 (genital herpes) clap their hands & jump for joy.

At the very best, the news can be born with resignation or acceptance.

In fact, a lot of people suffer a huge amount of emotional & psychological pain upon diagnosis, some even spiral into depression, and in certain cases become suicidal.

The reasons are obvious: shame, anger, humiliation, fear of rejection from future partners, etc.

In some cases, a herpes-free person was so in love with a herpes-positive partner, that he or she was willing to take the risk of being infected by having unprotected sex, but then, once infected, feelings can change and a lot of resentment and other negative feelings can surface… especially if the relationship ends.

Often, deception is involved in the transmission of the HSV 2. The common wisdom is that 90% of people who have it are completely unaware that they are carrying it, but that is not a scientifically-derived statistic, nor can it be proved one way or another if one avoids getting a medical diagnosis. It would seem that a lot of people play dumb in order to stay in denial.

In fact most normal human beings carrying genital herpes would go to almost any length to avoid having to have that horrible, dreaded, painfully awkward conversation: “Umm … I have herpes. If you have it, that’s great, but if you don’t, then we need to talk about your risk, should you wish to… ummm… [brain begins to melt-down here for most mortals when envisioning such a conversation]….”

OK, surely, plenty of psychologically health people have gotten through their lives and doubtless have found great ways of communicating their HSV status to potential partners but NOWADAYS WE HAVE THE INTERNET! There is a  website where you login with your privacy completely intact, and you can communicate with AWESOME herpes-positive singles right down the street from you right here in Toronto, Canada.

Seriously, problem solved.

NO AWKWARD CONVERSATION. It’s understood – it’s a checkbox on your personal profile.

What’s not to like about that?

You can check it out by clicking here for PositiveSingles or by clicking the button below. The site is based in the States but it is the only game in town for Toronto herpes dating – a lot of sites have about 10 signups for all of Canada, maybe none at all in your city, but at PositiveSingles, you are going to find people right in your neighbourhood with the same ‘problem’ as you – and guess what: when you both have it, it kind of stops being a problem!

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Come Out And Play, Toronto Singles… HSV & All!

April 19, 2014 by  
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Spring 2014 - Toronto Singles Dating With HerpesThere is nothing more basic in nature than the siren call of Spring! It’s dating season again!

The bucks in the forest are clashing antlers, the birds are doing songs and dances for each other; in Toronto, singles are putting winter behind them, checking their waistlines, shopping for glad-rags, and signing up in droves on the dating sites!

Most of the conventional sites and services don’t have a checkbox or a dropdown menu for HSV / genital herpes… so how do you bring THAT up with someone on a computer chat  or a coffee date?!

If you are one of the many in this city affected by genital herpes, don’t despair! There’s a website just for this situation, so you never need to have that awkward conversation because you are among others with exactly the same situation. And this is not one of those STD sites where there are about 3 Canadians; there are pages and pages of awesome TORONTONIAN singles to go out with. Sign up for free and you’ll be surprised to see how many HSV positive people are living right in your neighbourhood!Browse Toronto Herpes Singles Now!

Toronto Singles Dating With Herpes: Anger, Love, & Healing

September 23, 2012 by  
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Herpes Dating Sites Are Full Of Great People Who Can Help You Heal!

You May Feel Anger And Despair When You Get Your DiagnosisWhen you first get diagnosed with herpes and you get the talk from the doctor about how the disease is transmitted, what it means for you and your sexual partner, and if you are a woman, what it means for your reproductive future.

It can feel like a giant-sized boulder has been dropped on you, Wile E. Coyote-style!

If you are like most people, the first thing you do is jump onto the Internet and start researching the facts and the human experiences.

Chances are good that you are dealing with betrayal, rage, despair, and possibly even suicidal emotions and are searching for others to commiserate with.

You will read a lot of stories which are far more horrible than your own and you will read stories from people who really don’t take it that hard and just take it in stride, meditate, and get on with their lives (you will probably not relate to those people AT ALL – at first).

Guess what: there IS a shortcut to the healing process: herpes dating sites.

At first, a lot of people resist the urge to join one of these sites because of the huge stigma which is still associated with HSV, but after living in silent, lonely, isolated misery, it gets harder to resist the urge to simply connect with others living with the same condition.

You may even make the decision not to DATE anyone on the site but join for the purpose of connecting, chatting, and healing the anger and the feeling of isolation.

The biggest challenge of living with herpes is the stigma and the isolation. Reaching out to others in the same situation is completely liberating.

Believe it or not, you may well FORGET all about herpes when you find the right person who has the same condition. You don’t need to think about it at all because it is not affecting your life in any way except for the occasional breakout (and it IS true that the frequency of outbreaks decreases over time).

Try it now – you can sign up for free and you’ll SEE all the nice, decent, good-looking singles online right here in Toronto who share your experience and really understand what you are going through.
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Lots Of People In Toronto And All Over North America Have Herpes

June 25, 2012 by  
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Herpes Won't Ruin Your Life - Lots of People In Toronto Have It Too!Actually, all over the WORLD, for that matter!

This article is interesting and timely – don’t despair! Having herpes WON’T ruin your love life… if you take control of your situation.

It’s nice to see the Huffington Post stand out and use the H-Word!

All over the world, not just in Toronto, people suffer in silence about their HSV and often won’t even tell their own friends due to the “shameful” and “dirty” stigmas put on this not-particularly-terrible-for-the-health STD.

The most expedient solution to the issue of having herpes is to join an STD site like and start meeting others with your condition.

Something that those living with herpes have learned, is that everyone has his or her own experience with it. Some take it a lot harder than others.

Some people commit suicide due to their despair and isolation; others (even the odd celebrity) are pretty light-hearted about it and just ‘get over it’.

Perhaps it is the “dirty” perception of herpes that pains certain sufferers. It only takes finding a partner with the same virus to completely convince those people that neither they, nor their new and wonderful partner, is “dirty”.

True, promiscuity is good way to improve one’s odds of contracting herpes, but there are plenty of situations where very non-promiscuous people are infected by bad luck as it were… usually treachery, but that’s another blog!

Short of celibacy, it’s the best and fastest way to forget you even have it!

Try it now – you can sign up for free and you’ll soon see the light at the end of the tunnelBrowse Toronto Herpes Singles Now!


Meet Singles In Toronto With Herpes (HSV 2)

June 20, 2012 by  
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Whether you have been diagnosed recently or have been living with herpes for years and suddenly find yourself single again, there is often going to be that lonely, isolated feeling of being stuck with a virus that nobody wants to talk about … least of all at an initial coffee-date from an online dating site!

It’s up to the individual *when* to disclose one’s herpes status – some brave souls put right on their mainstream dating site profiles, but the vast majority of singles living with HSV2 are a little more timid about disclosing their STD status to the world.

Maybe one day that will change, but anyway for now, there is actually NO NEED to ‘go public’ about genital herpes on a regular dating site. There is!

Here is a website where you can talk about the things that really matter to you and a simple checkmark in your profile lets others know your STD status. Conversation over – there, that was painless, wasn’t it?!

If you are grappling right now with the prospect of meeting up with eligible bachelors & bachelorettes, and wishing that you didn’t have an extra layer of baggage to deal with, just click here, create your FREE profile and start seeing and believing!

If you have been looking around at other STD sites, you may be skeptical, having gone through the arduous and soul-searching process of creating a profile, disclosing a lot of sensitive data, then finally getting to the point where you are able to search the database as a member – only to find there is NOBODY in YOUR neighbourhood, and barely a handful of herpes singles in the whole county of Canada in their database! What a let-down.

At, you are going to be amazed, and pleasantly so, to see that there are tons of awesome singles just like yourself in exactly the same situation. Goodbye loneliness & isolation.In fact, if you are new to the virus or dating with it, you will find it utterly therapeutic to see all the warm, wonderful (smart and good-looking, too!) singles who are dealing with (or have dealt with) ALL of the same issues as you.

Different people deal with the diagnosis in different ways, but the HONEST approach is not necessarily the more difficult one. Probably the vast majority of herpes infections are caused by deceit and/or denial, and you may be one of the many who were emotionally devastated for a time after the diagnosis. Disclosing herpes status to ANYONE at first seems unthinkable as a person recently infected is usually dealing with a web of negative emotions from shame to betrayal and sometimes even despair… or despair’s watered-down, chronic cousin, depression.

For anyone who has been diagnosed with herpes and is thinking, ‘Eeewwww, I don’t want to join a herpes dating site’, please reconsider! If you think for a moment about whom you will find there, it is generally the honest and ethical herpes singles who don’t want the risk of infecting others as a result of deceit or denial. Of course these things are subjective but several users of the site find that the overall caliber of singles on the site is better than on an ordinary dating site (where you will find a LARGE number of herpes singles who do NOT disclose their condition).

The truth really does set you free!



VIDEO: Top 10 Herpes Facts (Sex Health Guru Tip)

June 17, 2012 by  
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Check out this informative video from – it’s always amazing how much misinformation / disinformation about herpes there is in our society!
It’s always nice when somebody puts a quick and easy top-ten list approach to the actual facts.

Meet Other Toronto Singles With Herpes

June 17, 2012 by  
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Dating In TorontoThere is nothing more rewarding in life than loving and being loved!

So many singles honestly believe that their herpes status makes them unlovable or untouchable in one way or another.

Until they see it with their own eyes, they find it hard to believe that their very own city of Toronto is absolutely full of other men and women with the very same herpes virus!

There are plenty of people in this city with the same concern that you have and they probably feel just like you – not particularly fond of having “the herpes talk”.

So guess what – go ahead and connect right now – what a sigh of relief to talk about ANYTHING ELSE!